Too, the hymen is flexible, rather than brittle, so it can stretch when you insert your fingers. Which definition of virginity does your religion or culture use? Plenty of people with vaginas will have hymens that are mostly worn away without having had any intercourse at all. Virginity Customs in Nigeria information parlour. You can't miss Karisma Kapoor's latest look as a Rajasthani bride! It's also always worth a reminder that the vagina isn't an object:
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Have you seen Sushmita Sen's stylish boyfriend? Retrieved 28 June See paragraph 3 under the definition of hymen above and the link to wikipedia. The test typically involves a check for the presence of an intact hymenon the flawed assumption that it can only be torn as a result of sexual intercourse. The Times of India. Not all girls are born with hymens, which makes this definition of virginity somewhat misleading.